Fear Clings But Love Releases

There is a feeling I get whenever I decide to give away something of value. Part of me feels love, a light and airy state I enjoy. But there is another feeling there too, one a bit darker and heavier than the first. This part of me feels fear – of loss, of becoming smaller and closer to nothingness.

Fear clings but love releases. We are like leaves floating in a fast moving stream. The water of Life slips around us and we are carried along in the flow. In their fear, some leaves cling to the rocks and create eddies as the water’s flow is impeded. The water has always moved downstream. Life flows. Fear misdirects and stagnates. Love releases.

Fear looks inward and sees only the self. Love looks outward and sees the great circle that connects all of us. We all fall from the same tree and so there is no reason to fear. As life flows past me it finds you just downstream. It passes you and finds another, and another. Eventually, it finds me again. We are all connected.

That is why I try to give where and how I can. Sometimes love wins but sometimes I find myself clinging to something too valuable, too dear to give away. If I were wiser I would see that this is precisely the thing – the one thing too dear to give away – that has the greatest chance of impeding the flow of my life. Such a thing has the power to misdirect and stagnate the water around me. Such a thing has the power to cut me off from the natural flow, ensnaring me. A snag this big must be released for my own good and for the good of the stream.

It is a mistake to think of anything as if it came in a limited quantity. Scarcity is an illusion. There is enough of everything to go around, but there are those whose fear is stronger than their love. They find ways to gather resources to themselves, effectively blocking the flow downstream.

If you desire peace, then release your desires. Do not fear. Do not gather more than you can use. Help where and how you can. And remember:

You can’t always get what you want
You can’t always get what you want
You can’t always get what you want
But if you try sometimes you might find
You get what you need

Rolling Stones


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4 Responses to “Fear Clings But Love Releases”

  1. Mish Says:

    Back in October I meant to say, “Yep”. And one can get what they need in the most surprising manner.

    I’ve heard nothing from you in a long time so thought I would say hi. How are you doing?

  2. frank Says:

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  3. imabbb Says:

    Mish…. has it REALLY been that long since I posted? Hmmm, it might be time to let some stuff fall out of my head and into the blogosphere. It has been a while since I felt the urge to purge, heh.

    I have not been without inspiration however. My focus lately has been toward introspection. I have the feeling that I am exactly where I need to be at this moment. So I guess I’m doing pretty good, thanks. And you?

    frank…. thanks for your kind words. Feel free to add your thoughts to any of the posts on this blog. I visited your blog and I found your choice of stories and your global point of view very refreshing.

    So, what do you think of the relationship between love and fear?

  4. Mish Says:

    Note October mentioned in original comment.

    Good to hear. Been doing well enough, and busy. Know what you mean about purging. Inspiration aplenty (I some posts lined up) but either not much time put it on paper or sudden writer’s block.

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